Whose side are you really on?
I know you are so good at showing up for everyone else; in fact, you are the ideal friend to everyone except the person who matters the most. It’s time to take back your power.
When was the last time you did what you really wanted to do without guilt or apology? I don’t mean indulging in some self-destructive behavior like running up your credit card or calling up your ex that didn’t treat you right. I mean taking actions that affirm your self worth; things like being creative, eating right, exercising, giving yourself downtime, building wealth and learning new things.
Live Your Truth
My name is Neeka G. and I am the founder and creator of Learning2fly. Like you, I was often plagued with self-doubt and issues of self-worth; this caused me to pick up some very bad habits that created a lot of destruction in my life. I often hesitated to choose actions that aligned with what I really wanted because I was afraid of failing and losing people close to me.
At the same time, I was caught up in how things appeared. I was very proud of all of my external markers of success; however, over time, I was just plain exhausted and so busy I had no idea who I really was without my stuff. I had not given myself the respect and space to figure out a way to create an environment that was in alignment with my core values. Instead, I often reacted with resentment and anger to things in my environment I didn’t like. It took me a while to realize that the real problem was I was not on my own side, so why did I expect others to be?
Learning2fly is a reflection and teaching about my journey to self-love and authentic power. To learn how to fly requires you to shed those things that weigh you down like false beliefs and destructive habits in order to get to the heart of the matter: the truth. The truth about who you are and what you came here to do. It is about having the courage to live from this space–your heart–in spite of all outward appearances. It is a a collection of stories revolving around this central idea: Am I empowered or disempowered? It is about realizing you have had the power all along and consciously deciding what you will do with it going forward.
It is this recognition that triggers your transformation, and you evolve, empower and elevate your life.